Help support the Mego Museum
Help support the Mego Museum

Announcement

Collapse
No announcement yet.

Goodbye to my biggest fan

Collapse
X
 
  • Time
  • Show
Clear All
new posts
  • RSS
    Museum Robot
    • May 9, 2007
    • 5951

    Goodbye to my biggest fan



    Normally I wouldn't trouble folks with my personal life but if there was anyone that is a foundation for this site, it was my grandmother who passed away this week at 91 years of age. She (and of course, my parents) is largely responsible for why I look backward with fondness.


    I was fortunate enough to read her eulogy and was glad to share with people how much she meant to me and my family but I had to leave a lot out.


    Today would have been her 92nd birthday and I'm going to spend it celebrating many of the things she did that made me want to create this site in the first place:



    • My grandparents owned a store in a mall, almost every Saturday I was babysat there. I spent the majority of the day going from the Woolco, to the hobby shop and then to the drug store to ogle the rack toys. My grandmother was usually good for $2, which was completely ****ed away on what she would call “Junk”.





    • She kept old catalogs in her house and if she traveled to another country, she would bring me back their toy catalogs. It was kind of a weird torture looking at Big Jims and GI Joes that I would never own. It did however spark my interest in foreign toys, is anyone seeing a connection here?





    • In college, when I was forced to sell my toy collection, she arranged the purchase of my two favourite MIB Mego figures (Spider-Man and Captain America) and gave them back to me years later. I still have them, I will never sell them.





    • On my sixth birthday, she left me in the Eaton’s toy department and told me to pick out one thing for my birthday. I spent what felt like an eternity pouring over the GI joe and Big Jim offerings. More than the toy itself (i forget what I chose), I appreciated just being given that luxury of time.





    • When I was 13 she knitted me a Tom Baker scarf, she also sewed me a Jon Pertwee cape that I wore to my first convention a year later. I still have both, I never wear them.





    • She bought me my first issue of Starlog and more comics than I care to calculate.



    • My first Ramones record? You guessed it, it was Road to Ruin.






    • Christmas was incredible event at her house, some of my fondest childhood memories stem from those evenings.





    • When I got the Brick Mantooth figures in from China, she was the first person I showed. She approved but thought it was bad investment and well, the lady wasn't dumb.















    • Rack Toys is still proudly on her coffee table.



    • She always told me the truth, even I wasn't going to like it and could present it in a manner that I couldn't get mad at her.






    She was my enabler and I can’t look at the majority of the things I blog about and not think of her. That will always make me smile and one of the reasons I’ll keep going and will be just fine. I love what I do because she loved me.

    Thank you for indulging me.
    For more Fashion Mockery and 70's toy love visit us at Plaid Stallions.com


    More...
  • theressa
    Sewing...?
    • Jun 13, 2004
    • 1770

    #2
    Very touching! Loved reading it!

    Thanks for sharing
    Wants, original parts; thinking...
    It's the quiet ones you gotta watch!
    Custom suits, in time
    T_SUITS

    Comment

    • PNGwynne
      Master of Fowl Play
      • Jun 5, 2008
      • 19907

      #3
      Thank you for sharing--she sounds wonderful. My condolences to you & your family.

      I can empathize in a way, my grandmother was largely responsible for my childhood Megos, too and many costumes.

      Vita-Master? Dinah-Mite has one in her spa .
      WANTED: Dick Grayson SI trousers; gray AJ Mustang horse; vintage RC Batman (Bruce Wayne) head; minty Wolfman tights; mint Black Knight sword; minty Launcelot boots; Lion Rock (pale) Dracula & Mummy heads; Lion Rock Franky squared boots; Wayne Foundation blue furniture; Flash Gordon/Ming (10") unbroken holsters; CHiPs gloved arms; POTA T2 tan body; CTVT/vintage Friar Tuck robes, BBP TZ Burgess Meredith glasses.

      Comment

      • sprytel
        Talkative Member
        • Jun 26, 2009
        • 6651

        #4
        That was a beautiful tribute, Brian. Your grandmother sounds like an incredible woman. How fortunate to have a wonderful person like that in your life, even though it is never for long enough.

        Comment

        • Starroid Raiders Dagon
          Persistent Member
          • Apr 28, 2013
          • 2165

          #5
          Great post. Thanks for sharing. Makes me think about going to the corner store (that had a red caboose restaurant on one side) with my grandma and she always bought me a comic. I miss her a lot.

          Comment

          • vintage spideyfan
            Web Wobbler
            • May 12, 2007
            • 1526

            #6
            So sorry for your loss. My Dad passed two days before Christmas. There are good days, as well as bad, but it's the happy thoughts that keep our loved ones alive and with us.
            Looking for MOC Pocket Super Heroes...
            Good Trader List

            Comment

            • Werewolf
              Inhuman
              • Jul 14, 2003
              • 14963

              #7
              That was lovely. Thank you for sharing. My condolences on you loss.
              You are a bold and courageous person, afraid of nothing. High on a hill top near your home, there stands a dilapidated old mansion. Some say the place is haunted, but you don't believe in such myths. One dark and stormy night, a light appears in the topmost window in the tower of the old house. You decide to investigate... and you never return...

              Comment

              • Goblin19
                Talkative Member
                • May 2, 2002
                • 6124

                #8
                That was touching. My condolences to you and your family.

                Comment

                • Lee9977
                  New Member
                  • Oct 17, 2010
                  • 24

                  #9
                  my condolences. I had overseas Grandparents and rarely saw them in their life. You shared many years and memories together. Touching post

                  Comment

                  • thunderbolt
                    Hi Ernie!!!
                    • Feb 15, 2004
                    • 34211

                    #10
                    great tribute, funny thing, a lot of that sounds really close to home for me.
                    You must try to generate happiness within yourself. If you aren't happy in one place, chances are you won't be happy anyplace. -Ernie Banks

                    Comment

                    • Nostalgiabuff
                      Muddling through
                      • Oct 4, 2008
                      • 11423

                      #11
                      Brian, so sorry for your loss. your tribute was beautiful and touching. hold on to those memories and she will always be with you

                      Comment

                      • Godzilla
                        Permanent Member
                        • Nov 3, 2002
                        • 3009

                        #12
                        She sounds like a wonderful woman Brian and I'm glad she had such an impact on you. Take care.
                        Mortui Vivos Docent
                        The Dead Teach the Living

                        Comment

                        • Earth 2 Chris
                          Verbose Member
                          • Mar 7, 2004
                          • 32932

                          #13
                          The secret origin of Brian Helier. Your grandmother sounded like a great lady. Obviously a very positive and loving influence in your life. And since she started you on your way, we have benefited from her kindness and indulgence as well, since we get to enjoy those toys and catalogs and all your efforts you share here.

                          Chris
                          sigpic

                          Comment

                          • rche
                            channeling Bob Wills
                            • Mar 26, 2008
                            • 7391

                            #14
                            What an awesome woman! Sorry to hear of your loss, but thankful that you shared these wonderful memories wth us.

                            Comment

                            • supes
                              For the love of Mego's!
                              • Jan 19, 2004
                              • 2070

                              #15
                              Beautifully said, your grandmother sounds like she was a remarkable woman. So sorry for your loss.

                              For the love of Mego's

                              Comment

                              Working...
                              😀
                              🥰
                              🤢
                              😎
                              😡
                              👍
                              👎