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I guess I'm one that thinks like Huedell on topics like this,I know it was stupid to take drugs,but when it's someone who really wasn't a bad guy and someone you grew up listening too or even admired..it's a little hard to read people ragging on him.It's like when a lot of the Wrestlers pass,I know it was stupid to take roids and all,but you still feel bad and in my opinion you should show a little respect.
But again that's just me and everyone has their own opinion of course
I guess I'm one that thinks like Huedell on topics like this,I know it was stupid to take drugs,but when it's someone who really wasn't a bad guy and someone you grew up listening too or even admired..it's a little hard to read people ragging on him.It's like when a lot of the Wrestlers pass,I know it was stupid to take roids and all,but you still feel bad and in my opinion you should show a little respect.
But again that's just me and everyone has their own opinion of course
In doing a search for Twisted Sister's "Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas" (super fun version of a great song) I came across this on their website. History I did not know, since I'm not a huge metalhead.
Kevin Dubrow is dead. This hits pretty damn hard. Quiet Riot and Twisted Sister had a lot of respect for each other. The basis for this came from the fact that both Quiet Riot and Twisted Sister formed in 1973--long before the rebirth of heavy metal or "hair metal," as it came to be known, in the 80's. When Quiet Riot (on the West Coast) and Twisted Sister (on the East Coast) were formed, it was an outgrowth of the glam rock movement of the early 70's and both our bands fought the good fight against the onslaught that was disco (ugh!). When most other bands gave up or switched allegiances to what was more commercially viable at the time, both of our bands refused to bend--or break for that matter--and carried the torch for heavy rock through the dark days of the mid to late 70's.
As a result, Quiet Riot were not only at the forefront to the LA metal scene, they were the inspiration for many other bands who went on to find fame and fortune. If you were to look back at old issues of LA music papers, you'd see every band who ever became anything out of LA opening for Quiet Riot. And it was Kevin Dubrow and Quiet Riot's perseverance and refusal to take no for an answer that literally destroyed the barriers of the record industry, television and commercial radio and opened the door for all metal bands to follow into the promised land. And we all know the glory days of metal that followed. Thank you Kevin.
And because Twisted Sister was doing, and had done the same thing for the music scene on the East Coast, our two bands have always shared a mutual respect for one another. We know that none of the other bands (with the possible exception of Y&T who were doing pretty much the same thing in Northern California) had been through the **** that we'd been through. We had earned our battle scars and our right to stand on those coliseum stages...while we felt many others had not.
It's because of this connection, that the passing of Kevin Dubrow hits us particularly hard. You've all heard the saying, "There by the grace of God go I." Well, it's never been truer than now.
The metal community has lost a powerful voice and a great front man, but let it never be said that Kevin Dubrow did not leave his mark. You kicked our asses Kevin, you really did.
I'm not a real sympathetic person. Ever. But I do have a sense of perspective. I wasn't sad at all when Tammy Baker died a slow, painful death. She was part of a scheme that preyed on people's fears and lonliness and after "paying her price to society" she used her notoriety to remain in the limelight. I have NO sympathy.
Kevin Dubrow? Well... he may have made silly music; but I don't think he ever set out to rip anyone off or do them harm. (And yeah; if you hate the music you may WANT to say he did, but before you do please watch the movie "Metal: A Headbanger's Jouney." I can't possibly explain why folks would love Dubrow any better than that film.) Getting coked up and dying is an INCREDIBLY stupid thing to do, so I have no sympathy there.
BUT I do understand what would make someone WANT to do drugs. And that's where I got some sympathy. Not to get all weepy or anything; but I burned out about seven years ago. It's a strange feeling, like you're sleepwalking through your day. Nothing seems important, and more troubling; nothing has flavour. You wake up one morning and it's like all the excitement; good or bad, has been sucked out of the world. You do your job, you eat, sleep... you act like a human but you don't feel like one. And I can see how someone would get desperate enough to do ANYTHING to feel something; to "wake up."
And I'm nobody. I've never held the stage, never had armies of fans, never did anything anyone'd ever care about. How much tougher would this be for someone who once MATTERED? So THIS is where I got some sympathy. I don't condone drugs, booze, promiscuity, picking fights, or any of the other ineffective things people do to get through their day; but I can't bring myself to detest someone just because of them. Dubrow was just some clown making music who's life got out of hand.
I'm not a real sympathetic person. Ever. But I do have a sense of perspective. I wasn't sad at all when Tammy Baker died a slow, painful death. She was part of a scheme that preyed on people's fears and lonliness and after "paying her price to society" she used her notoriety to remain in the limelight. I have NO sympathy.
Kevin Dubrow? Well... he may have made silly music; but I don't think he ever set out to rip anyone off or do them harm. (And yeah; if you hate the music you may WANT to say he did, but before you do please watch the movie "Metal: A Headbanger's Jouney." I can't possibly explain why folks would love Dubrow any better than that film.) Getting coked up and dying is an INCREDIBLY stupid thing to do, so I have no sympathy there.
BUT I do understand what would make someone WANT to do drugs. And that's where I got some sympathy. Not to get all weepy or anything; but I burned out about seven years ago. It's a strange feeling, like you're sleepwalking through your day. Nothing seems important, and more troubling; nothing has flavour. You wake up one morning and it's like all the excitement; good or bad, has been sucked out of the world. You do your job, you eat, sleep... you act like a human but you don't feel like one. And I can see how someone would get desperate enough to do ANYTHING to feel something; to "wake up."
And I'm nobody. I've never held the stage, never had armies of fans, never did anything anyone'd ever care about. How much tougher would this be for someone who once MATTERED? So THIS is where I got some sympathy. I don't condone drugs, booze, promiscuity, picking fights, or any of the other ineffective things people do to get through their day; but I can't bring myself to detest someone just because of them. Dubrow was just some clown making music who's life got out of hand.
Could happen to any of us.
Don C.
Well glad to hear you got out of that stuff alright Don ,god only knows how hard that is.I've had many friends go thru similar stuff
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