I respect what the "easy going" people are saying----
Heck my "easy going" father would advise the same thing
and he's a great guy who dispenses good advice all the
time AND doesn't just talk, but "walks the walk" as well
but...my take is...
Your friend would have to have made an awful big change to have turned
into a "sensible guy" over the past few years
from a coward and/or a simpleton that broke a friendship up because
he couldn't figure out how to address a money problem with you
Sounds like a "headache deal" to get back in touch with him
but
if you're willing to vibe out if he's cool now---then go for it---
you have nothing to lose except your time and maybe some
pride if possibly the guy makes ya feel uneasy that you lowered
yourself to reconnecting with him again
Heck my "easy going" father would advise the same thing
and he's a great guy who dispenses good advice all the
time AND doesn't just talk, but "walks the walk" as well
but...my take is...
Your friend would have to have made an awful big change to have turned
into a "sensible guy" over the past few years
from a coward and/or a simpleton that broke a friendship up because
he couldn't figure out how to address a money problem with you
Sounds like a "headache deal" to get back in touch with him
but
if you're willing to vibe out if he's cool now---then go for it---
you have nothing to lose except your time and maybe some
pride if possibly the guy makes ya feel uneasy that you lowered
yourself to reconnecting with him again
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