Depression-1 my marriage -0

[hedrap]

You're in Mass. Some of the best food in the country. Go eat. Then go join a gym. If you customize, find a class that can teach you how to sculpt or sew. Read books you've always wanted to. Think of things you've never done that you'd like try. Places. Events.

Do not sit in front of the computer every free moment.

The longer you sit out life, the harder it's going to be to jump back in.

Challenge yourself. As Yeats said...

The friends that have I do it wrong

Whenever I remake a song,

Should know what issue is at stake:

It is myself that I remake.

[Spyweb007]

Sorry to hear this, yu can get through this though and happiness will come again someday.

[livnxxxl]

the hell with that, it's stories like these that get you thinking **** am I next?

I know IF I were married I would definitely be thinking that in the back of my head for sure.

[toys2cool]

It is horror stories like these that I read that really makes me feel grateful that I have never been married by choice all this time. I know there are some great love and marriage stories to. But I will stick to the statistics. Thank you very much. IF and when I do decide to get married some day there is definitely going to have to be a prenup involved or else.

the hell with that, it's stories like these that get you thinking **** am I next?

[livnxxxl]

It is horror stories like these that I read that really makes me feel grateful that I have never been married by choice all this time. I know there are some great love and marriage stories to. But I will stick to the statistics. Thank you very much. IF and when I do decide to get married some day there is definitely going to have to be a prenup involved or else.

[Brazoo]

Aww - I'm sorry man, terrible news. I know you worked very hard to try and make things right.

Take these wise people's advice. It is hard to picture right now, but I'm sure one day you'll look back at this experience and be glad that you moved on.

Cheers man!

[Doc]

My wife decided she doesn't love me anymore.. in the separation time she has found she doesn't miss having me around and has been anxiety free.

suprisingly enough i'm being very civil about it, I know i can't force her to love me, what would be the point? We'd end up hating each other and I have no time for hate.

so we're going to do a civil divorce split everything 50/50, until the house is sold we'll each pay half the mortgage, she can live in the house and look after it and the cats, i'll slowly start moving my stuff into storage, hopefully the house won't be on the market long, it's a nice cheap little house we just need to get 140k for it and be out.

so yeah...a month shy of 8 years yay f'n yay

Feel glad Mine said the same but mine was after 24 years and had 4 kids involved. Me I screwed up and got upset and ended up doing 4 months in jail.

Dont you like the way they just come out with.. 'OH I dont love you any more" Dating yeah I can see that but married for years? You dont even want to try to work things out? Sigh*

Watch it divorce lawyers are brutal some of the stuff they advise is down right cruel and unusual.

Sorry to hear about it though. I feel your pain

[toys2cool]

sorry to hear that bro

[Zemo]

life only lasts so long why waste it being miserable? use this oppertunity to do all the crazy stuff you wanted. I wish my pseudo divorce (common law BS) was half as civil after 10 years , hey I woke up this morning and I no longer want this...talk about sudden...so Given the non choice, I chose to let it go and try to be happy.

Ya I agree my man. What can you do. Just try to treat life like a playground that was built just for you. Go out and enjoy it.

[bizzaro megomauler]

life only lasts so long why waste it being miserable? use this oppertunity to do all the crazy stuff you wanted. I wish my pseudo divorce (common law BS) was half as civil after 10 years , hey I woke up this morning and I no longer want this...talk about sudden...so Given the non choice, I chose to let it go and try to be happy.

[batmanmc]

Sorry To Hear This I Hope Things Get Better For You Soon. Mike

[jasonmego1277]

Sorry to hear that man, That truly sucks. I hope for the best you and your family..

[RG]

very sorry to hear this.

just remember you're with friends here, so if you start to feel down come hang out in the chat room most nights you'll find me, Rich (kryptosmaster) and Juan (steelcouch) in there chatting it up

hang in there my friend

[HardyGirl]

As someone who's been through a divorce after 6 years of marriage, I understand how you feel. And I didn't want the divorce either, my ex did. It can be very disheartening. But as bad as you feel now, it will get better. Just remember, when God closes a door, he opens a window. Be open to new opportunites and relationships. Be well, and try to stay positive.

[livnxxxl]

I do regret to hear of your unfortunate event. It is great thing that you are both going to handle it in a civil like manner. Things could have been much worse. Best of luck to you both.