How old were you when you lost your virginity?

[Joe90]

Heck I spent most the time since I was 12 -13 thinking about sex, trying to get sex, worrying that I wouldn't get sex.

Sounds like a normal adolescent boy to me! My first time?

Would you believe me if I said...



I didn't think so...

So I'll just have to say... No comment...

[Seeker]

As stated in another post I was 18. Freshman in college and although I always had plenty of opportunities, I turned them down. I used to get hazed quite a bit from my fraternity brothers because they would see the sorority girls come onto me and I wouldn't close the deal so to speak....just wasn't that type of person.

I finally had a poor lack of judgement and succumbed to the peer pressure. It was not a good experience for me since I was doing it for all the wrong reasons.

After that, I would still get harassed by fraternity brothers as other girls would come onto me at parties and I would walk their drunk butts home. In the process I developed a backbone and would not allow others to dictate to me what to do.

Started dating my wife at 19 and have been together ever since. She did not succumb to pressure and waited for me. I really respect her for that.

See I was 18 too. Now as far as my story. I ended up hurting a very nice girl because I dumped her because she wasn't ready. The girl I had my first time with... well she wanted more serious of a relationship ended up hurting her as we eventually broke up. The next few....well lets say were just bad decisions. Now I started dating my wife when I was 20. She had waited till she found the right guy.... me. Like you said I respect that. I wish I did the same. Heck I spent most the time since I was 12 -13 thinking about sex, trying to get sex, worrying that I wouldn't get sex. All in all it just caused more problems, worries and stupid decissions.

[Adam West]

I was always pretty much open to my wife on everything. Just in case I get called to go on that lie detector show it won't ruin my marriage. That freakin show is nuts!

There's an old saying that as long as you always tell the truth, you never have to remember anything.

As stated in another post I was 18. Freshman in college and although I always had plenty of opportunities, I turned them down. I used to get hazed quite a bit from my fraternity brothers because they would see the sorority girls come onto me and I wouldn't close the deal so to speak....just wasn't that type of person.

I finally had a poor lack of judgement and succumbed to the peer pressure. It was not a good experience for me since I was doing it for all the wrong reasons.

After that, I would still get harassed by fraternity brothers as other girls would come onto me at parties and I would walk their drunk butts home. In the process I developed a backbone and would not allow others to dictate to me what to do.

Started dating my wife at 19 and have been together ever since. She did not succumb to pressure and waited for me. I really respect her for that.

[Vortigern99]

I wonder why the members who think this is "TMI" feel the need to post in this thread at all? If you don't want to know, don't read the thread. No one's forcing you. I for one find this stuff fascinating; it's perfectly normal and human to talk about sex.

"Let's stick with Megos", said one member. You do know this is the General Buzz forum, right? Do you see any threads about Megos in this forum?? Sheesh.

[Seeker]

I was young and it wasn't a good experience. I was scared and wondering what the hell to do. Luckily I lived through the experience. I wholeheartedly think kids today should wait till their mentally mature, not just physically mature to handle it, I know I wasn't.

I'm with Txteach on this one. If I could have go back I'd probably had waited

16 for me too. I dodged the bullet at 15 though. My standards were REAL low on that one. Yeesh.

This is why when my son turns 12, I'm locking him up in the basement until he's 21.

For my daughter, she's going to the nunnery. And we're not even Catholic. She gets out when she's 35
Chris

And now that I'm the father of 4 with 2 teenagers I see things in a whole new light. I wonder if Chris has the number to that nunnery and what type of basement locks does he recommend?

[toys2cool]

Well, I'm a Christian and old fashion when it comes to relationships, so I made up my mind a long time ago to wait until I get married ... of course I didn't think I'd still be single at 31, so I'm on the road to being a 40 year old virgin. But oh well I'm waiting, I might as well, I waited this long already

That's awesome Russ,I really respect that.Not because I wish I could've done that or anything.But just because I know how hard that must be

[johnmiic]

I was 21 and we broke one of the supports in the wood futon. We heard it make a long and staggered, crrrrraaaaccckkkkkk! We had to stop and laugh after that. That was a great experience-more fun that having the sex.

[Brown Bear]

Who in their right mind would devulge such information? Let's stick with the Megos.....and don't sweat the petty stuff, pet the sweaty stuff.

[grayhank]

Yesterday. After reading this I wanted to see what all the fuss was about...I can now cross that off my "to do" list...now I'm off to start conquering the world.

[mitchedwards]

T.M.I Too Much Information

[EMCE Hammer]

19, but that one didn't really count.

I got married at 18 and I refer to that one the same way.

I'm still a virg though.

[thunderbolt]

17, gal down the block.

[Daremo]

I was 13. 8th grade. WAY too young. She was the same age.

[Hulk]

Nunya... let's leave it at that

[RG]

Well, I'm a Christian and old fashion when it comes to relationships, so I made up my mind a long time ago to wait until I get married ... of course I didn't think I'd still be single at 31, so I'm on the road to being a 40 year old virgin. But oh well I'm waiting, I might as well, I waited this long already