i can fully understand you. But i think this thing should not drop you down.
I can say, as a most time buyer on ebay i read the negative feedbacks well and if the seller gives a respond to the feedback i buy at this seller nevertheless.
As others have said try not to let it worry you, I know how you feel though, I sold a coin about 8 months ago to a person and they gave me negative feedback because it "was not what they thought it was" They did not do their homework.
It was a 2000 Millenium Eagle coin and the buyer got mad because I mis represented it because it did not have an eagle on it......????? That is the name of the coin, all I did was post it and pictures of it, they just did not do their research.
I contacted ebay and the winner and tried to work it out to no avail.....
You don't know how many times I click on the buyers auctions and want to purchase one of his items just so I can leave negative towards him!!!! I even mentioned this to an ebay rep and they said I could not do such a thing, that would be wrong!
My instinct says I am the better person to let it rest, but part of me wants REVENGE!!
For now I am following my heart that what comes around goes around, and I will do nothing more about it.
Don't let it get you down, its not your fault!!
I just sold an item for 4.95. The buyer left me negative feedback because I had to open a case to get them to pay (he said so in the feedback he left). I pointed out that anyone who reads it would realize he had trouble coughing up $5 to pay for an auction he won... but my logic fell on deaf ears.
It makes a complete mockery of the feedback system. I dont know what possess people to do it , however , now looking at my "buyers" trading history , he is also a seller of similar items that I sell.....I think that sums it up.
Just a nasty piece of work who considered the small amount of items I sell as threat....it begs belief.