Sorry man. I lost my wife a few years back to lymphoma. She was 44 and the light of a lot of people's worlds, including our kids. The next few months are going to be a blur, but believe it or not, things sort of shake out. I hate using the term "gets better", because it will never be "better" with her gone, but you and the kids will adjust and get used to a new reality. I know you think that's impossible now, but it does happen, it just takes time. One day in the not too distant future, you'll go to sleep without crying. One day you'll go an hour without thinking about her. And then a few hours. One day you won't be in constant pain. It will come, even though it's hard to see now. Right now though, you just need to let the wave wash over you and take care of your kids. My kids were what saved me. One of my last promises to my wife was that I would get them out into the world set up as best I could. Our youngest was 10 when her Mom died, this year she is graduating High School. Life does go on. It will never be the same, but it does go on. There's a great facebook page called "Young widows and widower" that helped my a lot. Lots of people in the same crappy club. Hang tough. You can do this. And remember, she's still with you all. She's still watching
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