I recently had an exchange with a former member and while it was civil and I have no resentment, something he said to me has haunted me.
Keep in mind, I am speaking the notion here and not the person. I truly hated this belief and want no one else here to carry it.
It was wrongly assumed that we banned him, for no good or apparent reason. While there were some technical issues that exacerbated the situation, I suspect this opinion may have had help forming from someone who has been banned.
Nobody likes banning people here, we all come here to make friends and talk about dolls, not talk about others or be negative .
it's true, we've removed some people from these forums and occasionally I have wished I had done a better job of it. However, that's truly in the minority.
Even though we don't give "exit interviews" to people we remove, those folks know why and while they may be hardpressed to admit their hand in it, we've always had a valid reason and it's always our last resort.
So in summation, please don't assume the worst of us if you don't get a reply to an email or a PM, it's nothing personal, we're both people with packed schedules and full email inboxes.
Keep in mind, I am speaking the notion here and not the person. I truly hated this belief and want no one else here to carry it.
It was wrongly assumed that we banned him, for no good or apparent reason. While there were some technical issues that exacerbated the situation, I suspect this opinion may have had help forming from someone who has been banned.
Nobody likes banning people here, we all come here to make friends and talk about dolls, not talk about others or be negative .
it's true, we've removed some people from these forums and occasionally I have wished I had done a better job of it. However, that's truly in the minority.
Even though we don't give "exit interviews" to people we remove, those folks know why and while they may be hardpressed to admit their hand in it, we've always had a valid reason and it's always our last resort.
So in summation, please don't assume the worst of us if you don't get a reply to an email or a PM, it's nothing personal, we're both people with packed schedules and full email inboxes.
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