There's conviction to a principle and then there's a knee jerk reaction to something devoid of context. You're situation falls in the latter. You don't know what kind of relationship your cousin has with her husband or if the subject you saw was, in fact, her husband at that Tavern. So you're drawing conclusions based on assumptions to people you don't even know well enough to assess on that level.
You didn't witness a beating, so there's no parallel between your event and that of your friend's sister. You assessed something that, on a knee-jerk moment, looked provocative devoid of any facts and loaded with more assumption than what you needed to apply. At best its curious, but nothing remotely worth walking into your cousin's life about. Relationships have their own destination. And unless someone is physically being abused, I tend to think it's best to leave that destination to the people who started it. Their arrival point will be obtained whether you show up or not.
You didn't witness a beating, so there's no parallel between your event and that of your friend's sister. You assessed something that, on a knee-jerk moment, looked provocative devoid of any facts and loaded with more assumption than what you needed to apply. At best its curious, but nothing remotely worth walking into your cousin's life about. Relationships have their own destination. And unless someone is physically being abused, I tend to think it's best to leave that destination to the people who started it. Their arrival point will be obtained whether you show up or not.
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